Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Another School Year Down: Thanks You's and Lessons Learned

Those of us not working in the real world start our years in August and end our years in May. We write New Years Resolutions in August and say our goodbyes and have party's in May to celebrate the ending of yet another school year.

As I look back on this past year it has definitely been an up and down ride. So many high's such as running a half-marathon, being back in grad school and meeting Greg. And so many lows, like being sick for three weeks in April, sitting at countles cheerleading events and moving in the middle of the year. No matter what happend this year, there were so many people who helped me get through. They listened to me complain, cry, whine, and place blame. Then they helped me enjoy life, laugh and smile. And told me that it will be okay. And it was.

So, to them, I say thank you...

Courtney - my best friend who listened to me talk about almost everything this year. From cheerleading drama, to grad school frusturations, to running stories...she listened to it all. And is still my friend. Be impressed folks, she's kind of amazing.

Greg - when we met I kept telling him not to get too comfortable until he had survived the school year with me. I'm not sure he knew what he was getting himself into, but he did stick around long enough to figure it out. And he's still around...3 months, 2 weeks of sickness and 1 spring show later.

Mom - Thanks for answering the phone at 7:30am. And for coming into town occassionally to have lunch.

Heather - There were times this year where you single handedly allowed me to survive in the classroom. And you listened to me complain about cheer and talk about life. You make me want to be a better teacher and allow me that opportunity by your generosity.

Teal - You gave me so much this year...encouragement, listening, laughter, stories, inspiration, accountability. Thanks for everything.

Laurie - Thanks for the occassional dinner/lunch/breakfast to talk about life and love. You are the best. And you're children are kind of cute. I may love them.

John, Solomon, and Kristin (and all FUMC Youth and Counselors) - Too often I didn't show up or follow through with commitments or events this year. And you all just understood and welcomed me back whenever I could come. Thanks for being flexible with my schedule and telling me to keep breathing...probably when I needed to hear it most.

Through everything I have also learned a few lessons...

1. Life is easier when you work out/run everyday. The only reason I didn't lose it this year was because I was running 45 minutes everyday.

2. There will always be people who make your life harder. Find the people who make your life easier and spend your time with them.

3. Sometimes the hardest decisions to make are the ones that turn out to be the best for you. And sometimes you hurt people in the process. And that's hard. But it doesn't mean it was the wrong decision.

4. Life changes really fast.

5. There are times to take control of your life and times to let go. The first is easier but the second is more fun.

6. The only way I am productive is if I make myself a list.

7. It is important to be a global citizen. If there is one thing teaching world geography has taught me, it is that there is more than one story about a place and it is our job to learn a different story and then tell it.

8. Laughter and long talks are the best cure for anything!

9. I really do love to learn. Being back in graduate school has reignited my love of learning something new and challenging myself.

10. I am stronger than I think I am.

Now, I am ready for summer!

-Cynthia

4 comments:

  1. You are sooooo welcome. I count you as a blessing! Did we ever settle on our next occasional lunch?

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    1. maybe. But its a long ways away. We might have to figure something else out. I will text.

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  2. Yay!! The year is over and yes you are totally stronger than you think you are. I am impressed and I know next year will be soooo much better. I really like #7!! bring it on summer! oh wait, bring it on summer school?? :(

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